How to maintain a good relationship

Tips for guys

1. Let her finish her say Basically, that means DON'T INTERRUPT HER. Firstly, it's rude, and secondly, that just shows you're not paying attention to her. If you've got anything to mention, at least wait until she comes to a pause before you share your side of the story. It's not like she won't stop to breathe or something.

2. Express your empathy Tell her that you understand what she's feeling. Don't tell her that you think it's ridiculous or whatever to feel the way she is. Girls are more emotional and dwell on stuff more.

3. Show your love Demonstrate that you love her despite what she is feeling. Say you still love her and assure her that nothing will change that. Then ask if you can give her a good hug. Girls love cuddles. Your assurance will mean a lot to her.

4. Rise to the occasion, I know what you're thinking and no, i'm not talking about 'rising' to that kind of occasion. Pull yourself up and be there for her. If it is something you can do, take charge and follow through. Girls like guys who aren't fickle-minded, and especially those who give the feeling that they can be relied on.

5. To the Romans be like the Romans. Remember girls forge bonds through words and communication [whereas guys are more visual creatures]. Sharing what you are feeling will put her less on the defensive and more ready to accept what you have to say.
It's really the little things that matter. Greeting her good morning, or paying her a compliment, could make her day. Girls also tend to be more emotional, so bear with her moods.


Tips for Girls

1. Timing is Everything Choose to talk at the time when he isn't engaged in something, like when he is relaxed, not tired or hungry.

2. Check your attitude Remember that the driving motivation for a guy to give and love more is appreciation from his partner. So have you (Girl) been appreciative of what he has given or done for you?

3. Say it directly and briefly Don't beat around the bush and avoid validating your request with a list of reasons or long explanations. Ask what you really want directly instead of implying it, and without putting the blame on him. Have the mind set that he does not need to be convinced.

4. Practise the golden rule of silence. Be gracious if he does not respond favourably, after you had asked or said something. Tell him how much you need him for his support and resist the urge to accuse when he give excusess. Remain silent until he responds favourably.Guys love to be pampered too, so tell him how much you appreciate him and what things he did recently, which will make him feel good, or be nice about the mistakes he made.

I think that they're pretty true and applicable, so here it is. Hope it helps you too! :)


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